we are in the process of getting our first whippet we have found one thats avalible and hopfully if all goes well we will be getting her in about 7weeks time.
the thing is i have always said that i would like to look in to racing as i think it would be somthing that the whole family might enjoy. and up untill now my partner has always said he not fussed and just wants a new member to the family.
but since we have found out that about this pup my OH's mum has been non stop on about showing it
(she has 2 bearded collies and used to do crufts with them back in the day.)
anyway since she has been saying this my partner has now sided with her and thinks showing would be a good idea and doesnt really want to even look at the racing side.
Please dont get me wrong iv got nothing against showing iv actually been watching crufts on the tv and will be watching tonight just to see what its all about. but im not sure it would be somthing i would be into. and if i did want to get into it i wouldnt be happy about HIS MUM taking over and doing it all. :angry:
i really just want to know what all the pros and cons are of both and what people thought.
is it possible to race and show?? i didnt really think it was but i feel like im being ganged up on and we dont even have the puppy yet
but if you guys could give me some advice you could maybe give me some arguements FOR racing so my OH might consider going along to a race just to see.
or maybe arguments for me to look more into showing.
or maybe you will talk us out of both altogether
this has been stressing me out for the past 2 days as his mum has just been on and on about it and close to blowing my top at her and telling her if she wants to show that bad get her own dog :rant:
anyway no matter what happens the pup will first and formost 100% be a loved family pet and for the time being thats the plan but as this will be my first dog (apart from parents when i was wee) i feel like OH and his mum and more noligable than me and i feel like im going to cave soon as i dont have the experiance to fight my corner. Its even more anoying that this its not 100% yet for this pup so i feel like this subject shouldnt even be coming up yet
sorry for going on but please i need your help and advice. :thumbsup:
thanks
katie
x
the thing is i have always said that i would like to look in to racing as i think it would be somthing that the whole family might enjoy. and up untill now my partner has always said he not fussed and just wants a new member to the family.
but since we have found out that about this pup my OH's mum has been non stop on about showing it
(she has 2 bearded collies and used to do crufts with them back in the day.)
anyway since she has been saying this my partner has now sided with her and thinks showing would be a good idea and doesnt really want to even look at the racing side.
Please dont get me wrong iv got nothing against showing iv actually been watching crufts on the tv and will be watching tonight just to see what its all about. but im not sure it would be somthing i would be into. and if i did want to get into it i wouldnt be happy about HIS MUM taking over and doing it all. :angry:
i really just want to know what all the pros and cons are of both and what people thought.
is it possible to race and show?? i didnt really think it was but i feel like im being ganged up on and we dont even have the puppy yet
but if you guys could give me some advice you could maybe give me some arguements FOR racing so my OH might consider going along to a race just to see.
or maybe arguments for me to look more into showing.
or maybe you will talk us out of both altogether
this has been stressing me out for the past 2 days as his mum has just been on and on about it and close to blowing my top at her and telling her if she wants to show that bad get her own dog :rant:
anyway no matter what happens the pup will first and formost 100% be a loved family pet and for the time being thats the plan but as this will be my first dog (apart from parents when i was wee) i feel like OH and his mum and more noligable than me and i feel like im going to cave soon as i dont have the experiance to fight my corner. Its even more anoying that this its not 100% yet for this pup so i feel like this subject shouldnt even be coming up yet
sorry for going on but please i need your help and advice. :thumbsup:
thanks
katie
x