:sweating: ok its nearly time....phoebe is getting speyed this wednesday we are already in a state abt it......and yes i have tablets from the doc to keep me calm!!! was just wondering if anyone could tell us what to expect afterwards like what can we do to help her recover? what are we to expect will she be sleepy for long will she be off her food so many questions how will she be in herself afterwards as in a few months after does it make them more sedate or will she still not take any notice of us when out on a run lol does it change there character?? any advice personal xperiences would be appreciated..many thanks :sweating: